The Power of Getting Clear on Your Desires: The Most Important Work You’ll Ever Do
Have you ever been asked, “What do you truly desire?” and found yourself unsure how to answer? For so many women, this seemingly simple question can feel impossible to untangle. Between tending to your family’s needs, managing the demands of work, or simply being caught up in the whirlwind of daily life, you might have lost touch with your deepest desires.
If this resonates, know that you’re not alone—and this message is for you.
Why Your Desires Matter
What sets my coaching apart is my ability to hear the unspoken, to go underneath the confusion and chaos and be able to deeply connect with the truth of YOUR desires—even if you’re having a hard time clarifying and expressing them. I see you in ways that illuminate what’s standing between you and the life you long for. That’s why the very first step I take with my clients is uncovering the heart of what you truly desire.
For many women, this process is eye-opening. You might feel disconnected from your desires—unsure of who you want to be, what you want to experience, or what you long to have in this life. But giving yourself the time and space to gain this clarity is transformational.
Think of it like setting a flight plan. If a pilot is even an inch off course, they’ll end up in an entirely different destination than intended. The same is true for your life: without crystal-clear clarity on your desires, it’s easy to drift far from the life you were meant to live.
This is why your desires are everything. They’re not frivolous or selfish—they’re divinely inspired. The dreams placed on your heart are there for a reason.
Reclaim Your Connection to Your Desires
To reconnect with what you truly want, start here:
❤️🔥 Ask Yourself: What is it that I truly desire? Not what others expect of me, but what lights up my soul.
❤️🔥 Reflect: What desires feel like they’ve been placed on your heart by something greater than yourself?
❤️🔥 Give Yourself Permission: Allow your desires to take center stage. Stop dismissing them as “not important” or “someday” dreams.
When you make space to listen to your inner longing, you’ll begin to notice a shift. Your clarity and desires become your compass, guiding you to create the life, relationships, and experiences you’re craving.
A Final Invitation
Experiment with this practice. Let your desires be your guiding north star, and notice what unfolds. Where do they lead you? What new opportunities, connections, or insights emerge when you honor your deepest longings?
As your coach, I hold your desires as the sacred standard for your life—because they were placed on your heart for a reason. You’re meant to step into them.
So, my love, I leave you with this: What is it you truly want? What’s calling to you from the depths of your heart?
Let’s make this the starting point for your most aligned, radiant, and fulfilling life.
Additional Reflection Prompt:
If you’re unsure where to begin, try journaling:
“If I could wave a magic wand and create anything in my life, what would I choose?”
“What do I feel most drawn to, but haven’t let myself fully pursue?”
“What’s one small step I can take today toward what I desire?”
Trust that your desires are the roadmap to the life you’re meant to live. Let's uncover them together.
If you’re ready to go even deeper in this process and receive my support in clarifying your deepest desires in the realms of love, intimacy and relationships, click the link below to book your complimentary consultation. It would be my pleasure to support you in the creation of making your deepest longings your reality.