Your Turn-On is Your GPS
We've been taught to seek answers outside ourselves, looking for guidance in all the wrong places, when in reality, the map to our desires is already within us. Imagine your turn-on—those things that make you feel alive and inspired—as your personal GPS, guiding you toward your most fulfilling life. The things that bring you joy, spark your creativity, and awaken your senses aren't just fleeting pleasures; they are powerful indicators of your path forward.
In this post, I’ll share how tuning into your turn-on can activate your creative life force energy, along with a practice to deepen this connection. Ready to unlock your inner guidance system? Let’s dive in.
Embracing Turn-On as Your Inner GPS
To start, take a moment to ground yourself. Center into your heart space, breathe deeply, and feel the rhythm of your heartbeat. Now, try on this mantra: “What turns me on and lights me up is my GPS.” Let it sink in.
When I talk about “turn-on,” I mean the activities, experiences, and sensations that bring you back to your core and fill you with a sense of aliveness and purpose—things like:
Creativity and Self-Expression
Love and Connection
Presence and Joy
Truth and Wholeness
Playfulness and Elevation
These are not just sources of pleasure; they are pathways to a more vibrant, purposeful life. They open up possibilities, leading us to experiences and people who align with our true essence.
Practice to Boost Aliveness
Have you noticed how deeply connected your turn-on is to your creative energy? This connection is no accident. Our life force energy, which includes our sexual energy, fuels not only intimacy but also our creativity, passion, and purpose. One powerful way to tap into this energy is through a practice called edging.
Edging helps build and circulate your creative energy, allowing it to be channeled into passion projects, personal growth, or simply feeling more alive in everyday life. Here’s a simple, sensual guide to get started:
Steps for Practicing Edging
Create a Sacred Space – Find a quiet, comfortable place where you feel safe and undistracted. Light candles or use essential oils to set a calming, nurturing environment.
Breathe and Set Intentions – Connect to your breath and heart, and set an intention. What do you wish to invite into your life? This intention will guide your practice.
Connect to Your Body – Warm up by tuning into your body’s sensations, honoring what feels good without pressure or expectation.
Build Your Energy – Gently bring yourself to a state of arousal, physically or energetically. As you reach a 7 out of 10 on the arousal scale, ease off, directing the energy upward through your chakras. Repeat 3–5 times.
Close with Gratitude – Send love to your body, appreciating it for holding this energy. Seal your practice with gratitude.
Channel Energy into Creations – Take this newfound energy and focus it on a creative endeavor or a goal you’re passionate about.
This ritual serves as a reminder that sexuality and creativity are intertwined, amplifying your capacity to receive love, joy, and abundance.
Affirmations to Activate Aliveness and Creative Flow
Use these affirmations to reinforce your connection to pleasure, creation, and receiving:
It is safe to trust myself, my aliveness and pleasure.
I am open to receive pleasure, love and abundance.
I am open to receive divine guidance and inspiration.
I am open to co-creating with the God and infinite intelligence.
I self source of my own power and own my role as co-creator with God, I’m willing to make moves towards my desires.
Allow these affirmations to guide you into a space of openness and creativity, nurturing your dreams from a place of abundance and love.
Conclusion
Your turn-on is a powerful guide, one that illuminates your path when trusted and followed. By reconnecting with pleasure, we access our creative potential and invite in more love, abundance, and joy. So, the next time you feel inspired or moved, take a moment to honor that sensation—it’s your inner GPS, directing you to what you truly desire.
May this practice and these words remind you of the beauty and wisdom within. Let yourself be open to the flow, trusting your turn-on as a guide to your best, most authentic life. 🌹
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