How to Awaken Your Inner Sex Goddess & Pleasure Priestess: Reclaim Your Sexuality
Do you ever feel disconnected from your sensuality or unsure how to tap into your sexual power and aliveness? Maybe you’ve noticed a lack of excitement in your relationship, a dullness or lack of desire in your personal pleasure, or a lingering belief that your desires are “too much” or “not enough.” It’s easy to feel stuck when life gets busy, have past wounds clouding your confidence, or cultural & religious conditioning telling you to suppress your natural radiance and erotic power.
I see you. You deeply crave a passionate, magnetic connection to your body, your sensuality, and your Inner Sex Goddess and Pleasure Priestess. Whether or not you’re in a relationship, you desire to feel alive, vibrant, and irresistibly YOU. This blog will gently guide you back to your magnetic essence, offering practices to reconnect with your Inner Pleasure Priestess and awaken the sexual energy already within you.
Take a deep breath, Queen and let’s dive in!
Why You May Feel Disconnected from Your Sexuality and Pleasure:
Disconnection from your inner sensuality can stem from many sources:
Cultural or societal shame about sex and desire, leading to guilt or repression.
Past experiences or trauma that make it hard to feel safe in your body.
Stress and overwhelm, leaving little room for joy or self-connection.
Body image struggles or feelings of unworthiness that dim your self-confidence.
Routine and monotony, especially in long-term relationships, creating a "roommate rut."
If any of this resonates, please know there’s nothing wrong with you. These feelings are valid, and there’s a path back to pleasure, intimacy, and radiance. Here’s how you can start reclaiming your connection.
Practices to Awaken Your Inner Pleasure Priestess:
1. Slow Down to Feel More
Eros—the life force of pleasure—lives in your subtle energy and body. Start by slowing down and coming home to your breath and sensations. Take moments throughout your day to pause, close your eyes, and simply feel. This creates space to savor and connect with your erotic energy.
2. Ground Into Your Body
With your eyes closed, bring your awareness to the base of your spine—your root chakra. Visualize energetic roots growing from your body into the earth, anchoring you deeply. This grounding practice helps you feel stable, present, and open to receiving pleasure.
3. Tune Into Your Needs
Ask yourself daily: “What do I need right now to feel radiant and magnetic?” The answer might vary. Some days, it could be journaling about your dreams and desires with gratitude as if they’ve already come true. Other days, it might be an energizing meditation from bed or a moment of stillness. Trust what feels right for you.
4. Embodiment Practices
Our emotions often live in our bodies as physical sensations. Stress, for instance, might show up as tightness in your chest or shoulders. Sit with these sensations, breathing into them with curiosity and love. Ask yourself: What does this part of me need? By meeting these emotions with presence, you can release stuck energy and reconnect to your body’s natural flow.
5. Dance From Your Yoni
Drop into the sensations in your pelvic floor and allow your hips and yoni (your sacred feminine center) to guide your movements. Dance freely, letting this deep, rooted energy express itself through you. This practice ignites your creativity and awakens your inner sensuality.
6. Explore Self-Pleasure
Self-pleasure isn’t just about orgasms or toys—though they can be part of it! Explore different textures of pleasure: soft and soothing, fiery and passionate, or slow and sensual. Touch your body as if you’re your own lover. Try a breast massage, gentle caresses, or a full self-pleasure ritual. Ask yourself: What kind of pleasure would nourish me most today? Listen more on this on the Love Revival podcast: Self Pleasure Ritual Revealed + Everyday Goddess Rituals.
7. Meet Your Inner Pleasure Priestess
For a deeper practice, try this:
Place two pillows nearby. Sit on one and imagine your Inner Pleasure Priestess sitting on the other.
Visualize her: What does she look like? How does she move, dress, or carry herself?
Ask her questions: What wisdom does she have for me? How can I embody her energy more fully?
Let her guide you in infusing your daily life with her essence.
Over time, you’ll deepen your relationship with her and access her power & wisdom whenever you need it.
Conclusion:
Your Inner Pleasure Priestess is already within you—she’s simply waiting for your invitation to emerge. By slowing down, tuning in, and engaging in your senses and these practices, you can reconnect to your body, embrace your desires, and radiate the magnetic, sensual energy that is your birthright.
If this resonates with you, it’s just the beginning. Inside my transformational program, Sacred Sexuality: Awaken the Pleasure Priestess, we’ll dive even deeper into how to embody your Pleasure Priestess, helping you unlock your full feminine power and reconnect with your juiciest self.
Click the link below to learn more about this juicy, empowering journey!
You deserve to feel alive, radiant, and in love with yourself. This is your invitation to join us today.